Good morning, @bclane I’m Scott and I was my wife’s caregiver for her 14+ year journey. It’s a tough and sad road you are on for sure.

One thing that helped me was that there were many questions I simply quit asking because I knew my wife’s broken brain was going to give me an answer I didn’t want to hear or I couldn’t understand. The damage is irreversible so I had to teach myself not to expect answers from our ‘old days’. It was hard but did help me.

Wishing you strength, courage. & Peace