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Osteoporosis & Bone Health | Last Active: Mar 26 3:33pm | Replies (15)

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@nannygoat5

You know that she is self centered and has no empathy for others and her comments affect you so why continue to be friends. I would cut off her comments and be sort of aloof when she contacts you….you’re too busy to listen right now. She doesn’t have a perfect life. You just won’t hear about it.

I have dropped friends over the years because of their constant negativity and complaining…the opposite of what she is doing. . Don’t let anyone get you down. It’s hard to hear great things about others sometimes when you have problems..that’s human nature. Take care of your own feelings and talk with friends you know who can listen without dwelling too much on yourself. It’s okay to feel fragile and down at times …you don’t need anyone to make it worse.

FL Mary

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Thanks. It’s true - I have close relationships with all my children and their spouses (whereas her DIL is non contact with her) I guess I wouldn’t keep her in my life if it wasn’t for a long history . Guess I’m still coming to terms with being less than healthy as I’ve always seen myself as a warrior