Thank you for your warm welcome. I find it very helpful to hear what other women's experiences have been with this unplanned journey. I'm still working although I will probably retire if/when I have to go through another round of treatment. Exercise helps, as does reading, seeing friends, doing the things I enjoy and trying to laugh and have fun despite this new component of my life. I'm a person who likes to plan and have had to rethink some of that. My spiritual practice keeps me oriented on the present which helps so much.