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Life can be very cruel sometimes. The fate of Alzheimer's is cruel, but I think the fate of patients' caregivers is even more so.

I truly wish I could offer more than just sympathy. I live in dread fear that I will slowly lose my mind and not realize that I am slowly exhausting and killing my wife, whom I love more than anything on earth.

If you have belief in a higher power, perhaps that can help you. During the darkest times of my stroke recovery, when I was in so much pain I couldn't stand it, I would recite "Not my will but thine be done" --- a lot.
It helped me to endure circumstances that I could not begin to comprehend.

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I appreciate your response and I’ll take all the sympathy you can offer! Lord knows, I’ve had many pity parties myself.
Also, thanks for reminding me to pray the Lord’s will be done. I often forget that everything happening in life is preordained, but none of it takes place to hurt us.
I also commend you for your acceptance of His will, even in pain.
Stay strong and I’ll (try) to do the same!