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Aging Alone—Finding Strength and Connection

Aging Well | Last Active: Apr 18 9:21am | Replies (93)

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@happilyalive

I too am an introvert and often have to stay home since I'm my husband's caregiver. He cannot leave the house often so it also hinders my going out. To make things even tougher, we have recently moved to a new home that is over two hours away from our former residence. Battling with how to meet people has been an issue for both of us. With his handicap and my being autoimmune we stream the Sunday services from a local church. Using a list that was made up of close neighbors I've begun snail mailing them to get to know them a little better. Unfortunately, the only way I get social interactions is to visit friendly businesses to chat with them as I check out in the line and to speak with customers around me in the grocery store. I've reached out to the Senior services in our city to only be told that if I get lonely then they have a cat I can come in and pet. Getting out of the house is a huge undertaking and so I understand in that I'm looking for email ladies to become friends with. I learned quickly don't paste anything like that on Craigslist. So, keep at it in networking online if you are stuck in the house often. I've enjoyed reading everyone's responses to this reply. I'm wondering is there anyone who knows of an email group for seniors just needing interaction? Thanks for asking this . Have a blessed day.

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I do not know of such a group, but think it a great idea and will keep my eyes and ears open. I too have autoimmune and my husband has not been able to get around well this winter, so we have been home a lot. Am sad you were offered advice to come in and pet the cat. That wouldn't work for me as I have severe cat allergy! Hopefully your call initiates more thoughtful solutions?? I have 2 friends that I email regularly; it helps to hear from them and interact that way. And 2 women in my family recently widowed and I keep in touch with them often to support them as they adjust to life alone. Thank you for posting your story! I could relate to all you were sharing.

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12 years ago we moved 1000 miles to be close to a daughter. We've never made friends or gotten close to anyone in church. We've tried! I've been so surprised at how difficult it's been. I think by the time people are in their late 60s and 70s they're settled in with family and friends. I so much miss the friendships from home. I for sure keep in contact with old friends but thought I'd have an extension of new ones but it didn't happen. Now at 80 we do what we can do. I don't think we are suppose to share emails on here. Blessings to you.