Honestly, I needed to hear this. I can share with you that I have a friend who felt I was "bragging". I was taken aback at first - shocked she felt that way, and more than a bit insulted. But I've come to realize that is likely her projection at work; not everyone can integrate emotions involving chronic - even terminal - conditions to arrive at a place of coexistance, not even so much acceptance. But I suppose it's like getting to the summit of a mountain - there are different paths to arrive there and we all have to choose the one that's most comfortable for us. I've chosen mine; I'm glad it's inspired others but I'm aware it's not for everyone.