Exactly. I think there is a common perception by the public that dementia is about a person losing their memories. They have no idea how much more there is to it…..the difficult behavior, repeating over and over, making unreasonable demands, placing things in odd locations, being argumentative for no reason, resisting care, fixating, toileting dysfunction, etc. The caregiver is on constant alert. I suspect that is why caregiving brings so much fatigue. I admire all of you who do it, but years of this have convinced me to pass the baton to someone else. I’ll return here and post all about it. I see it as a good thing.