@ccohen1 I'm confused by your posts. You've switched back and forth between sharing that you are writing for a friend but in some of your posts you've written in the first person with "I" and "we".

Does "your friend" know you are writing about their intimate life? Can you also explain why you have switched back and forth between third person pronouns "he" and "she" and first person pronouns of "I" and "we"? This will help me and others figure out how to respond to your posts.