Yep, you are exactly correct! That's how it goes, right?! I was vegetarian for years, never drank soda pops, practiced yoga, always got back in shape with intense cardiovascular workouts after every pregnancy, breast fed my babies, cooked healthy square meals for my family, always physically active (a long distance hiker on the Appalachian Trail), no drugs, never smoked, always continued to take university courses (after earning my BA in '74) for brain health, even learned a 2d language in my 50s, and this is my "reward." lol 😝. The "normal" people react with such smugness in their false sense of security & say "Well I take care of myself, I do yoga, eat organic, & I'm doing everything I can so "this" will never happen to me!" Lol, the surprises are awaiting for everyone -- it's called DNA, unpredictable tragedies & trauma, & life itself.