Hi @hnreinhart12, Heather, I hope you don't mind, I expanded the title of your discussion. I'm glad you wrote here and that you have an appointment with a mental health specialist too. Don't forget about social workers who can be an additional help. At Mayo Clinic and other cancer centers, there is a specialized type of social worker specifically for cancer patients and families.

- How an Oncology Social Worker Can Help https://connect.mayoclinic.org/blog/cancer-education-center/newsfeed-post/how-an-oncology-social-worker-can-help/

I remember a post by @marshall8318 (Julliette) when she found herself in a similar situation just a few years ago that was helpful to many https://connect.mayoclinic.org/comment/712755/

Heather, how are you doing today?