You have my deepest sympathies, Susan. You and your sister knew it would be coming one day, but it is still a shock. I knew that Joe was losing his battle to lung cancer a few months ago and watched it grow progressively worse. But it was still a shock and still brought grief and sorrow. I know you are both going through the same feelings. I experienced grief, then relief that he was not suffering any more then I felt guilty for feeling relief. Still feeling like it is surreal at times. May God give you peace and comfort at this difficult time. Prayers for you and your family.