I had HOLEP on 3 Dec 24. Have had incontinence since the surgery. Did my 3 month follow up and the doctor told me to keep doing the kegel/pelvic floor exercises. I do them every day. I have gone from 6 to 7 diapers per day to 3 per day. Things started really changing when I hit the 3 month mark. Very little leakage at night. Mostly happens when I am up and about. Don't give up.