@merpreb I can talk till I am blue in the face and he will still not understand how I feel because he keeps coming back to "we are two different people". Its true, he cannot possibly put himself in my shoes, nor does he want to, because he is more interested in being in his own. LOL. Marriage is a dance of two people coming together and moving apart, sometimes losing sight of each other on a crowded dance floor, but hopefully when the song ends, you are listening to the last strains of music in each others arms.