I have a different perspective. My mother cut me out of her life -- completely -- after I got married.

There was trouble brewing from when I first announced my engagement. The first words from my mother's mouth were, "Well, I guess I have no objection."
I didn't know what to say. I was 38 years old! I wasn't asking for her permission.

It was all downhill from there. She was the mouse in the punchbowl at my wedding, snubbing my wife's family. (My mother considered them immigrant peasants.)

My Dad was my Best Man and he tried to keep the peace; he thought I picked a great girl to marry. But he passed away 2 years after I got married, and mom's knife came out. (At Dad's funeral, my mother would not even acknowledge my wife's family's presence, about as low-class an action as I've ever observed. I was appalled.)

My mother visited a couple months later and treated my wife abominably. I wouldn't have it. I won't allow anyone to disrespect my wife -- a wonderful girl -- especially in our own home. We had a monstrous fight.

Long story short: my mother left and never spoke to me again. (She died 15 years later.) Naturally, I was disinherited, too.

But it was her loss. Instead of being happy for us, she forced a confrontation that she was sure to lose.

Episodes 25 and 27 of my YouTube channel are about having a happy marriage. Key point of advice for husbands is to decide whom you're going to keep happy: your wife or your mother, because you can't do both.
If you can't choose your wife, stay single.
https://www.youtube.com/@srlucado/videos