@maesuai It's great that you can go to these appointments with your wife. In my experience it's important to have another "set of ears" to listen to the medical provider and to take notes. When I'm the patient I can get somewhat anxious and rattled so I'm grateful that my husband comes to appointments with me. We can then discuss what we both heard.

It's good that your wife finally shared what she's experiencing with you. I get that she doesn't want to worry you. I know that feeling but I'm thinking that she would want to know if this was you?