I don’t think anyone is obligated to help out with family members who have dementia, but I must admit I’m a little disappointed and sad. Overwhelmed too. My mom is in the hospital and now it’s just me with my dad (88 with Alz). I’ve had his care 24/7 for the last 9 days, even though I had to work. (Did it remotely.) I got my niece to stay for a couple of hours once. The problem is I really need to work out. My knee acts up if I don’t. Yesterday, I took him with me to the gym. But, that’s not very feasible. No one has offered to help me even for 2 hours to just sit in the house. Those I did ask said no. So….I’m calling a private agency tomorrow. It’s just it’ll take awhile to get that set up. I’ve got several calls in to facilities for respite care. Haven’t heard back…..it’s unbelievable. With all the friends and family around and no real support. I guess everyone has their own stuff to deal with. I won’t judge them.