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Frustrated to the MAX!!!

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@ray666

Good morning, @mrshill

You are DEFINITELY not alone in this! The story I told yesterday about my Jepp and irrationally-possessive me was just a snapshot of what I'm experiencing these days. As I mentioned yesterday, my partner and I are in the midst of consolodating houses, so lots of noisy, chaotic moving going on. The sound of the unspooling of packing tape alone can be deafening. 🙂 This week, my partner has arranged for her sister and a duo of cousins to come to town to help with the moving. I have had to explain to my partner that when the noise and the yakkity-yak and the wheezing and the grunting get to be "too much," I will have to be elsewhere. She understands that my need to be elsewhere is not because I don't want to help; just the opposite: I WANT to help, but my PN prevents me––prevents me from doing anything but the most menial of things. That hurts. I wish it didn't, but––if I'm to be honest––it does. And thank goodness my partner understands. Thank goodness, too, I have an elsewhere (our other house) to which I'm able to retreat.

Cheers! (and I mean this most fervently)
Ray (@ray666)

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Hello, @ray666! And hello to Debbie and John and all that are contributing to this thread and to all who may be reading and commiserating. I sure empathize and truly understand what you are sharing, and would add how isolating it can be when we have to resort to finding a place of quiet away from movement and noise. It feels like being punished -- like adding insult to injury.

I really liked the webinar that John made available. My faith in God and the way He encourages me through the exchanges contributed by this PN community on Connect are gifts I receive with much gratitude. The silver lining is definitely the support and friendship of all of you.
My word of advice tonight is "Don't overdo!" I say this coming off of two weeks of doctor, haircut, dog grooming, etc. appointments that I allowed to be made back-to-back. Just going to all of these put me over the top. We are all physically compromised and need to treat ourselves gently. That means emotionally, too 💕
Peace to you all,
Barb