In response to sjctx, my stereotactic biopsy was nothing like the experience she described. I was numbed with cream before any needles. The doctor carefully explained how she would proceed, and one needle only was inserted. I had no pain. I had my procedure done in Denver at an office run by women for women. I suggest you try to find a place where their focus is on mammograms /breasts. Don't be wigged out, just find the right place! It should not be painful & bringing you to tears. Good luck.