I am so sorry to hear of the life challenges… who needs ‘extra’ as we get older? I am 60 and have been recently dx’ed with ADHD secondary to trauma. I would agree that as we age we have brain challenges. I can for. Fact that that info is in black white data. I wish I could help with finding a doc that gets you. I don’t know anyone as right now I am being prescribed by my pcp until I attend my new patient psychiatry appt which is further down the road than I could function. I’m wondering if there is a Gerontologist that might have some experience with your situation? Best wishes!