You are not alone.
My profile is blood in urine, tests, exams, scans, specialist I trust, cystoscope, 70% of tumors removed, biopsy, high grade papillary urothelial carcinoma, non-invasive. Second surgery in 2 days to remove the remaining 30%. I am opting for BCG treatment for 6 weeks, check-ups regularly thereafter.
My only advice is remain optimistic and be kind. Your body will appreciate it and act accordingly.