Doctors are stupid about this stuff, and much more. I don't tell my doctor anything about my withdrawal because I know what I am doing better than they do. They have no consideration for the medication sensitivities of individuals even though there is increased information about antidepressant withdrawal. Even when I stopped a hormone patch and knew that I needed to taper, my doctor said there were no problems with just discontinuing it immediately. And the advice to "get a new doctor" is not helpful when one lives in a rural area and the doctors are pretty much all the same, AMA all the way.
In response to the comment " why are we always in such a hurry?", I'm fairly certain that many who come to this forum seeking support are becoming more educated about the harmful effects that antidepressants have on our brains and bodies, and are motivated to experience better health. It IS frustrating to realize that this process is a slow one which requires continuing to put this poison in our bodies for a longer time than we first realized. For some, it is also a matter of not being able to afford/be prescribed the amount of effexor necessary to taper at the suggested pace. Let's try to legitimize and recognize people's situations and their feelings surrounding them, and offer real solutions when we can. Everyone I hope will have a good day, wishing you all wide open windows, and the ability to ride out the waves.