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Trying to feel normal but don’t know what that is.
Addiction & Recovery | Last Active: Feb 24 11:17am | Replies (28)Comment receiving replies
Keep asking questions, that's the first step. Second step get a same sex sponsor and then speak w him/her every day on the phone at least just to touch base. Find a comfortable home base and support it by keep showing up. It works if you work it! Follow thè 12 steps in all your daily affairs.
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In the AA book ‘AAComes of Age’ Cocreator Bill Wilson says that when getting down to ‘causes and conditions’ to our alcoholism eventually we should visit Adult Children of Alcoholics and Dysfunctional Families due this reason more than anything else We were likely borne in it and perceive the Dysfunctional behaviors as ‘NORMAL’ … yet it is not healthy. The parents are not to blame but just passing on an emotional inheritance of unhealthy dysfunctional life. Besides, to ‘Blame’ is to B-Lame’. I recover my dysfunctional childhood carrying within me my emotional child and reparent him everyday - this is how we recover from ‘Arrested Development’ of childhood trauma, grief, and abuse or neglect.