I don't have much to add--I had a "simple" Whipple procedure in Sept /23 and am doing well. That said, I wish you well, too. There will be unpleasant situations and experiences on this road. Take care of what you can influence, be kind to yourself and find joy where it arises.

There's the saying that pain and fear are like velcro; joy and happiness like teflon. We're programmed (for survival) to pay attention to what could do us harm. We can also chose to spend a little more time with the joy and happiness that is also part of the journey. Don't skip over them!

"Pessimism is the analysis of the situation; optimism is the orientation of the spirit." - Anon

All the best.