I get your concerns and am about to move myself now, at 78. Its true, my kids are no linger in this state, but it will be good to be closer to them. Generally speaking my core of good friends where I live now are 10 years older than me. Facing reality, in a few short years, they will be gone. So, I am moving South.

BUT - I have bought a new home in a 55 and older community, geared toward younger people with free concerts on the weekends, a great restaurant, several pools, many classes and clubs. I insisted on tons of amenities since I am aware of the “busy children” syndrome. I also wanted a place where my six grandchildren would actually like to visit. It’s all good. We have to make the best of our lives and if our children and grandchildren join in in the fun, great!