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Can anyone expound on these posts? I don't mean to sound ignorant but my husband and I own an rv- very nice' and love in a rural area in a small private owner rv park where our space rental includes everything. We have been insulated from all this since my husband retired in 2023 left Albuquerque NM bought the rv then lived in small rural communities. Can anyone say if this is a nationwide issue or just certain states? My husband has returned to work part time. We have discussed moving. I am shocked this type of behavior reached senior housing. Thank you

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I was just thinking about that very issue earlier. The fact is no matter where you live in the world if you are near anyone there is always the risk of having your right to peace and safety violated by someone else. Obviously some places are far worse than others but that can be researched, In my case I did do extensive research and this area is safe! What happened here is rare and beyond belief.

I was angry today. At the men and at life for putting me in this awful situation. I said it before, this for me is not just about drugged, aggressive, threatening men outside the place I live. It's about how everything in the environment here "lined up" to make me a "sitting duck". There's no way to not be detected by the men. There's no escape if "something goes down".

It's me right now but I have known numerous people throughout my life, of all walks of life and ages, who have had a range of bad neighbor experiences. The ones that seem to suffer the longest are those who live in houses they own. In apartments there's often other residents who are affected by the same issue(s) and landlords in many jurisdictions must by law provide a safe and peaceful living environment. That's the only reason why it's ending where I live. The police can arrest trouble-causing people over and over and over but the only one who can legally move them out is the landlord. Actually, I learned through this experience that depending on the circumstances some cities can circumvent the landlord and do it if the landlord fails to do it. The federal government can also end situations if drugs are involved.

I have nothing to update today on the situation here. I wanted to go to the store earlier but I decided not to - out of fear. I never in my life thought I would ever experience something like this. It truly is a living nightmare. I will call the landlord tomorrow and try to find out anything I can. Thanks for listening. It really helps.