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Why don’t anxiety meds work for me?

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@dorothy1914 You initially wrote that your experienced anxiety came out of nowhere. I thought the same when I first experienced intense anxiety and panic attacks over 40 years ago. With time and a good psychiatrist who also provided psychotherapy I learned that the anxiety I experienced was due to my marriage and my husband. I was able to finally manage the anxiety with the psychiatrist I've already mentioned who worked with me to not only find a medication that worked but also listened to me.

@dorothy1914 You wrote in a later post that your husband is diagnosed with Parkinson's disease. This is a devastating diagnosis and surely alters how you and your husband thought your senior years would look like. Is there a Caregivers Support Group you can attend where you can talk about your own experiences and fears and listen when others share theirs? You may have a lot in common with others who are living with a spouse with Parkinson disease. Or do you see a mental health therapist? In my experience the combination of a mental health therapist who you feel a connection to (as I did with my former psychiatrist) and medication that works for you after you've made it through the initial side effects (I had that too, by the way) is a helpful way to address anxiety. With a therapist you will also learn coping skills to get you through periods of intense anxiety.

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I don’t know what to do? I am pretty much frozen with fear and have developed some Obsessive Compulsive habits. I am ruminating over getting materials prepared for our IRS taxes. Can’t sleep at all so I take 1/2 mg of Ativan when I am desperate. Sometimes the Ativan helps, other times, it’s as if I took nothing. I have talk therapy with my psychiatrist as he doesn’t prescribe meds. I will look for support groups for Parkinson’s. Both my husband and I bury our heads in the sand to avoid more unpleasantness.

Hi Dorothy:

I am late in my reply but wanted to share with you that I am dealing with very much the same situation you described. I have been a long time user of Paxil 12.5 CR. Had knee replacement surgery last June in 2024 and suddenly woke to an anxiety disorder four nights following the surgery as the nerve block anesthesia wore off. I was left with CNS deregulation, Tried upping the dose of Paxil, and other SSRi but my body seems to be resistant to any of these medications. I, like you , feel very stuck. Very severe depression and anxiety with tremors; more pronounced in the morning. It has been two weeks since the last post. Any changes? I hope you are doing okay and have a plan forward.

Regards,

John