← Return to Emotional health after cancer: How are you doing really?

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@monique1

Oh yes, I need a hug daily, but I live alone. I have a boyfriend but I know he is struggling. He wont talk about it. My first battle was 4 years ago, then on a pet scan jan 2024 it metastasized to one lymph node area btwn lungs. Several mos of keytruda, now chemo. Carboplatin/taxol 6 cycles 1xwk, 3ks then rest week. A cycle is usu 4 wks. The side effects are brutal. Digestion issues, pain, some hair loss Temporary they say. Good new last scan after cycle #3 clear but doc wants to do all 6 cycles. Havent asked prognosis yet, too scared. Like some I'm jealous of people without cancer. Hate to admit that. Yet I do have a new perspective appreciation for life. I'm sad cuz I'm alone. I'm sure my bf will leave me. I have family but they have their own lives. This is my first time in a support group chat. I try to look at the bright side. I'm home and not hospitilized. one day at a time. I pray daily thanking God for each new day. Thank you for your input...I agree people need to realize we need emotional support and love more than supplements or rest ven, I think. Hang in there all of us...no one lives a life unscathed. Our cross is just a bit heavier. Love ourselves. Nurture each other....❤

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Please keep coming to this site, so many people here to offer support. I am blessed that my wife has gone to every treatment with me. I joined this site to find support from others in the same boat as me. Sometimes I want to say, yes I have cancer but it's not contagious. Someone once told me that they are not sure what to say to someone with cancer, I understand. I try to find laughter any where I can, it helps to make the day better. Keep posting, offering your support to others and telling your story, so many are here to support you, I wish you well on your journey. Best to all.