I definitely reiterate, my sympathy and I hope that you get better expeditiously. There’s no way to say it, but your wife doesn’t have a right to be frustrated because you can’t go out or she can’t go out. It is what it is and you will get better with time unfortunately it seems to be taking more time. Maybe the answers you seek will be revealed to you at your appointment along with continued advice medication from your doctor to help you achieve the maximum from your surgery.