I also have multiple symptoms as you.
Had a bladder sling done and had no relief from leaking, just some complications like not being able to pee afterwards,and having to undergo a loosening of the sling.
I also cannot feel the urge to go, and basically am stuck having to wear a damn pad all the time!
My nerves are shot, have no feeling in my feet and have trouble walking.
My balance is gone, and have to use a walker because I fall easily, and I can’t walk around places because I get tired easily.
I know how you feel, it’s a real struggle.
There are days when I just want to give up, my quality of life sucks.