My husband is what I would call highly functional as well. He relishes doing tasks around the house, getting me books from the library, and visiting his favorite coffee shop. I know I have it easy compared to many but the endless difficulty of dealing with his decline is really hard. If I described his annoying behavior, it would seem like not much, but for me to endure it day after day is maddening. I work very hard to be understanding, patient, tolerant, and kind. I used to get angry at him for things he'd do but I no longer do that. I just let things be what they are. But the stress is wearing me down. I've been recently diagnosed with an aortic aneurysm and told to avoid stress. Good luck with that. I worry about what's coming, how we'll cope, whether our money will hold out. My husband is a good person, affectionate and kind. He's a retired university librarian and he was a beloved figure on campus. It's so sad to see him telling the stories of his own life over and over, often to the same people he's told before. He can't find words or remember names of people he's known a long time. A classic case you might say. There is no solution beyond talking about what our life has become and sharing with others who really understand.

I can certainly relate to your post. My husband is the same way, very functional, but we cover the same topics or I answer the same questions each day. I try my best to be patient, but sometimes it is just too much!