My wife has no desire to quit drinking and is very adamant about it (says it is her only pleasure). She is a very confrontational person and has made it clear that if I try to take her wine away, she will go get it herself. Were I to try to take her car keys away, it would cause WWIII (so far she has not had an accident nor gotten lost on her short drives). Her doctor knows but all she can do is make a recommendation. I don't have an answer for this situation that would not make the situation worse.