Although today is still the Chinese Spring Festival, belongs to the festive time, but tonight I saw "What is Prostatectomy?" After that, I cried! The patient's words "This is hell on earth" deeply hurt my heart! I have written this several times and tears have filled my eyes and interrupted the typing on the keyboard! When I underwent surgery for radical prostate cancer on January 7, 2023, I recalled the pain of lying in bed, flipping over for 20 minutes. The most memorable is that on the night of the 21st, I dreamed that my mother, who has been dead for 35 years, came to visit me in the hospital, and I heard my mother calling me from far away: "Son, how can you be so?" To see you so ill, as if you were cutting my flesh, my bones, my heart..." I saw my mother come to my bed and call out, "Mom, mom, mom! . We held each other and cried... The crying alarmed the nurse, who immediately came to the ward to calm me. I woke up with tears on my pillow.
For more than two years, even though I've been doing Kegel exercises, pelvic floor muscle exercises, I still have over 70% incontinence. Read: surveyr @survey, @fwintracy, @briang1958, @peterj116, @firespooks several gentlemen's posts, very touched! The situation with @firespooks in particular has been very moving and inspiring for me, and I will definitely continue to exercise to recover the urination ban.