I wish you the best. 58 is young. I am sorry you both are going through it. It is such a horrible thing to deal with and I think you are correct. People either don’t know what to say or don’t want to face their own mortality. I cried all the time the first two years after he passed. I am somewhat better now as far as the crying goes. I still cry every day but much shorter outbursts now. I hope you try to enjoy every minute with him that you can. Don’t argue about things. Be as supportive as you can be. We had our arguments over the years like all couples do but after he was diagnosed I never got upset with him because it wasn’t going to help matters. I tried to be as cheerful as I could be with him every day.

I have a bunch of photos of him during our 25 years together but I don’t have many videos. I wish I had taken more videos of him. I took several during his time in rehab after the surgery but I wish I had taken more during our more happy times.