I am sorry they are dragging their feet with you. I was diagnosed on a Friday with a bladder scope and set up for surgery that following Monday. I have high grade as well but mine is non invasive and is contained to the bladder lining. The doctor I see has moved very quickly and been wonderful. I am having my second TURBT in a couple weeks to be sure they got it all. Then I will have meds injected by catheter to the bladder once a week for 6 weeks. I forgot the name of the meds. I am scared that treatment won’t work.