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Aging Well | Last Active: 4 days ago | Replies (14)
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@alissahe

I don’t particularly feel motivated to have sex because my husband won’t take viagra or any similar drug and his sexual capability is pretty much zero ever since he went on cholesterol meds and blood pressure meds.
I think he l theoretically misses sex but I’m not interested as long as his situation remains as it is.
Any ideas?

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gravity3 | @gravity3 | 5 days ago

How old are each of you? Do you have a therapist or sex therapist who can guide you through this?

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kisu | @kisu | 5 days ago

My husband is not motivated to have sex either and refuses to take Viagra or anything else. He is also taking blood pressure pills. I have discussed with him about other ways to have sex that don't involve penetration but he is not interested.
To answer your question "Any ideas?"
I have always pleasured myself with orgasms except in the last 5 months. Coincidently Testosterone was added to my hrt and I was able to orgasm again. I also added a vasodilator cream and it made it even better. I don't know if my problem is something you experience but I would tell you to enjoy yourself without him even if he does not want to participate.

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