I feel your pain. Everyone advocates their specialty.
I simply studied the most likely side effects and picked the one with best likelihood of quality of life.
I got three opinions.
I wasn’t in a hurry to be rushed. When I did make a decision I had confidence it would be best for me. I tried and left emotion out of it and looked at risks.
One last thing , I got an Artera AI test and it suggested treatment based on my data. And it matched what I picked.