@seekinginfo I had cancer treatment that eliminated estrogen from my body. My doctors did not do the usual infusion of bone meds because they were nervous about my kidney disease and atrial fibrillation. Net result was osteoporosis and 3 lumbar fractures w/out trauma. The others were long ago from a traumatic fall. I am 10 years out from a nasty cancer so no regrets.

I think it would be good to read over your post about poor self-care and bad habits. Health issues are complex and there is enough victim-blaming from the medical establishment already! I know your intentions are good but your posts echo what many of us sufferers hear from family members!