You and I are basically in the same place except I already have my results. Once you find out type of cancer a treatment recommendation will be given. I start BCG in two weeks. I have read everything I can find. So far this can be as simple as having skin cancer removed and just monitoring it yearly to having it spread to other areas and needing chemo. No easy answer. I can tell you i told my kids and i am glad i did. As parents we want to protect them but they told me they deserve to know so we can go through it together. I learned something that day. Kids are tougher than we give them credit for. Good luck. Hopefully we can both look back at this as a distant memory.