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Inconsiderate, intimidating neighbors cause depression and anxiety?
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Yes, a washing machine in the apartment is possible, I had thought of that, but you know what? I'm a thrifty person and doing wash in the laundry room will save me money while I'm here. I'm not going to let these problem men negatively affect me much longer.
In fact if the situation is not permanently over by February 1st I have a number of things that I will immediately do, all perfectly legal. Damn the torpedo's! I will post these methods when this situation is over, which I am almost certain will be by the 1st.
Also, I like your use of the word "perceive". Yes, my imagination is running a bit wild, or more, but this is based not only on actual threatening behavior but by what I learned online about one of the men. He a "bad dude" with real potential for trouble at anytime. Plus he has numerous friends and obviously that is a concern.
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More power to you! Being assertive is good. It gives one a feeling of control. Being aggressive is not good and can get you into trouble but you sound level headed and aware.
Best of luck to you. Good will prevail over evil. I’ll be routing for you. No one should have to live in fear and these men do sound intimidating. Bullies can be dangerous because they lack empathy and likely have antisocial personality traits but they are cowardly and insecure inside so they pick on others they perceive to be vulnerable to relieve their own feelings of low self esteem.
In the meantime walk tall and keep ignoring them. Best of luck with your plan.