@sadiesmom, I can't begin to imagine your pain and what you are going through. From my limited knowledge and what I have read about the drug Effexor/venlafaxine it's extremely difficult to taper off and should never be done quickly. I agree with @lisalucier that it sounds like you need a doctor's help and they really need to know about the pain you are going through so that they are able to help and come up with a better treatment plan.

You are a survivor - that's why you are reaching out looking for answers and help. My struggles tapering off of prednisone are nothing compared to what you are going through but I have learned to taper very slowly - sometimes reducing the dose by 1mg or less per month vs every 1 or 2 weeks as the normal schedule. This is why I think your doctor needs to know and understand what you are feeling and why it's hard to taper off of the Effexor.

Hoping you have some pain free days ahead.

John