Hi Debra - you might want to check out the Ashton Manual on benzodiazepine withdrawal. Dr. Ashton had decades of experience in successfully titrating people off of benzo's. The first step is converting your dose from lorazepam to diazepam. Diazepam (Valium) has a much long half-life than lorazepam (Ativan). That means it stays in your system for almost twice as long, making a withdrawal more gradual (and tolerable!) There's absolutely nothing to gain by going fast. It's odd that your doctor would voice concern about Ativan's addictiveness. It would make sense if he'd been concerned six years ago. But now? You're already dependent on it. Or "addicted" if he insists on using a pejorative. So you need help to get off of it safely and compassionately.