I was beside myself, not in a good place mentally, & having problems coping. I knew I needed a therapist to talk to. My Primary Care Drs. office sent me a list but I could not find anyone on that list who I wanted to see that would accept my coverage. I went to the Psychology Today site & found a counselor there. You might try there. I had to call a number of places to find someone who was accepting new patients & accepted my insurance. Fortunately I like the counselor I am seeing. Know too, you always have the option of seeing someone else if you happen to get linked with a counselor you don’t feel is helpful. You might start by asking your primary care if they have anyone they recommend. If not, try Psychology Today.com wishing you the best.