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How do you respond to offers of help?

Just Want to Talk | Last Active: Jan 6 11:52am | Replies (110)

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From a caregivers prospective, I would say..I am so sorry..but they don't call or text or even send a card. My spouse is feeling left out and that people really don't care. Meaning some few friends and yes family. He does not want pity . He has really been overwhelmed and rude with his comments. I bought to his attention to no avail. It is what it is! Luckily my siblings, cousins and friends call and check on us. My brother, who has Parkinsons calls my husband . Sometimes he does not reply. I pointed out to him that he is checking on him and that something kind he says can make my brother feel better. My brother is in Stage 5 and it seems so unfair. He would give his last dollar if you need it. He does not always speak well. I think my spouse sees his future and that is what holds him back. So his spouse used a different approach to get him to call. Meaning me if I was not clear. Hugs to everyone!!

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The people who stay in touch week after week are pure gold.

Not the big performative offers of help like "If there's ANYTHING I can do…!!!" which quickly fade out, but just simple check-ins like "how are you doing this week?" (and really caring about the answer).