Are you experiencing dry orgasm after prostate cancer treatments?
For me this is a very embarassing question and subject. I think MCC is a great place to ask.
I have seen some past post but don't remember much about the discussion. I had 30 rounds of proton radiation and no ADT. It will be 1 year since my last treatment in July 2024.
I am not sexually active (intercourse wise due to back and medical problems with both spouse and I). My spouse and I enjoy each other with manual arousal love making.
I noticed orgasms are dry with little or no liquid. I plan to discuss with my R/O in July but would like to see if this is something that has happen with others who did not have RP. I am not sure if I should be concerned about it or that is a common issue after radiation.
Bear with me was not easy to ask. I have found MCC a place where I can ask embarassing (at least for me) questions where I would never do so in person or in a in-person group.
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jc76 Yes this is common. I had 28 rounds of imrt & 18 months of Elagard. I too have dry orgasms. It’s nothing to worry about. I don’t mind it. You just have to get used to it. At least we can get an erection.
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3 ReactionsThe prostate and the seminal vesicles produce fluid that nourishes and helps propel semen. Radiation is whole organ treatment and can include the seminal vesicles ( incidentally or purposefully if there had been cancer extension into the vesicle), while semen is distantly safer in the testes. Dry orgasms aren't abnormal after radiation treatment.
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2 ReactionsDry organisms are normal, the feeling is no different.
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2 ReactionsAh, the trustworthy voice of experience.
The blood filled ejaculations scared the crap out of me. I was totally unprepared. Basically tomato ketchup. Gross.
The sad part is that those were the last of my "good" ejaculations. After that, I had radiation and then, for a while, I had strong muscle contractions, but with no fluid, and then pain. Since then my lower end has, I suppose, come to some kind of arrangement with itself so now I get no muscle contractions and a feeble dribble.
I had not realized a long term consequence of the radiation would be to affect the muscles. Is there any value in trying kegel exercises or similar? I shouldn't complain though. Today I dropped down to 0.2 ng/ml. My lowest value yet.
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Thanks. I had not idea was common. When I did my consultations at Mayo and UFHPTI it was not mentioned. Then when I posted this I saw that others had had it and asked my R/O about it.
It is the concern that does this mean another problem or is this serious because you don't know.
Thanks again.
Well guys. I chose a full prostectomy rather than radiation after being offered a choice and I am glad I did except for my inability to have an erection. I miss the intimate aspects of my marital relationship. I now need an injection to get an erection and I cannot have an ejaculation. At 75 I should not complain but desire does not disappear.
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1 ReactionIt's totally normal for it to be dry. I've already been asked if I'm "faking it" because there's no longer any "evidence" that I enjoyed myself. It's depressing as hell.
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4 ReactionsIntermittent hormone treatment
Now the question comes back to the man about faking it.
I remember being told about almost every conceivable side effect of radiation treatment. But dry orgasms were not one or gone over so quickly I did not remember.
I did not see posts about it, so I did one and boy did the posts come back with so many others with same side effect. I did go to my R/O who confirm common as the margins included (for me) the semenial vessels as well as other margins.
I empathsize with others who have experience this. It seems quite more common than I thought. That does reflect or reduce the shock when it happened to me, and others when it happens the first time.
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