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Dealing with a Spouse with a “Mild Cognitive Impairment”
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Yes, there are many of us dealing with IT. You can read some of my posts. My husband was officially diagnosed in early 2023 but changes were apparent before that. We will be married 52 years next year. This is sad to see our husband lose his ability to think for himself and engage as the partner we once had.
I savor the good times, forgive myself for exploding at times, and hug him at least once a day no matter what.
Good that you have a therapist. I have one for me once a week and my husband has a neuropsychologist who calls him once a week. I get in on those sessions and it’s often marriage counseling.
Hang in there and stay connected here.
I found this sight when one day I was taking a walk and just sobbing. I searched “my husband has MCI..” and found this to be soothing and helpful.
I hope you find some peace in knowing there are many of us with you in the same boat.
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Thank you for your kind responses. It sounds like you are dealing with the same issues I am. I was desperate to find a site where others were also dealing with spouses with MCI & punched in a similar search term & this one came up. I’m so thankful to be in touch with others who are dealing with the same thing. How they are keeping their sanity, dealing with a marriage that really isn’t anymore, etc. My therapist suggested bringing out photo books. I haven’t tried that yet. I’m just so thankful for this site & for all the sharing. Thank you!
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And yes, I’m so thankful to find a community of peers. I look forward to hearing from you & others on how you are dealing with your challenges. I no longer feel so alone in this. It’s had to see friends living their lives & having a fully functioning husband who remembers & they are able to communicate with. What I miss most is being able to reminisce. I also no longer know how much he tells me I can rely on. It’s like I have to be present for everything.