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I don’t think either one of us feels we can truly be happy with each other. It’s more a situation of convenience where the cost of a divorce and living separately is prohibitive despite the fact that we have saved our money over the years. So, we are left with Acting like icebergs under the same roof because the cost of change seems overwhelming.
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I know feel you, l experience living in a home with the feel of icey cold. It makes one are both avoid going in the same room they even think the other is. It's no way to live,
no easy answers. I could live every every easily just this way, being loving and kind to my spouse. eating delicious food, listening to music we once loved going about my life, dont depend on spouse to make you happy, make yourself happy.But if there is harsh word spoken, pushing, disrespect publicly or in private,
Abuse of the money or property. Me I am out of there. In these cases someone could lose their life. I would also before it go down
I would be ahead of the game I would have my own money set aside, I would get advise from a lawyer concerning my options. However with the economy, inflation it cheaper to stick it out,
The love could come back, That's the wonderful thing about life anything is possible.
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@londonex if you can find this movie on a streaming channel, watch it. It describes a situation somewhat like yours.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fireproof_(film)