Surgery? Radiation? Can I have an independent suggestion?
As a Canadian, I apologize in advance for my self-centered question. I have done all the preliminaries and now must make a choice. When asking urologists, they’d advocate for “cutting”. When talking to radiation oncologists, they’d say “radiate” - statistically, the odds are equal or better, and the side effects - well, perhaps, eventually, you might have to deal with those. Which leaves me, as someone reluctant to understand issues related to cancer that I never wanted to know, to make a decision.
In short, here are the parameters: over 4 months, PSA readings of 26, 21, and 25. Biopsy showed cancer in the left nodule, Gleason 3+4 in 5 out of 12 cores. Cribriform and suspected perineurial invasion. Bone scan and CT scan showed no metastasis. PET scan shows a significant uptake (3.7) in the prostate but also, no metastatic activity, except for a minuscule uptake in L4 lumber (but judged to be benign). That doesn’t eliminate microscopic events, I suppose. Also had a prior appetizer of a heart attack and had CABG (9 bypasses).
The question now: what would be an optional approach for me, specifically. ChatGPT says a short course of agonist/antagonist ADT, Brachytherapy, and EBRT. The urologist says “if you want it gone, call me”. The radiologist says “the isotopes are at your service”. How on earth can I make an informed decision that’s best for me if everyone advocates for what they do/know as the best approach?I suspect some answers might be - it depends what consequences you want to deal with - granted. But medically, what gives me the best chance to conquer this, well, shit?
Where would you take it?
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I think that is Rezum, the steam thing for BPH and not cancer. I don't know enough to compare Rezum and Vanquish but obviously Vanquish is used for cancer so it must differ somehow.
I definitely understand where you are post op. HANG IN THERE! I was able to achieve an erection the day my catheter was removed and then a month later it went away. Using Trimix was interesting and the self inflicted shots became easier with each injection. From my layman's perspective it helped to retrain the penis just as the body had to be retrained after the prostate was removed.
Thanks for hope that my normal life can return
I may sound like a broken record so I apologize in advance. I was right there with you and what I knew was the first priority was to remain on this side of the dirt. Next was sexual health and continence, as never needing to wear a Depends at least until I'm much older was an equally big goal. So sticking a needle in my penis was never an appealing option BUT I turned it into a comical, joke filled mental dynamic. I never mentioned the hilarious, yet respectful conversation I had with the young nurse who showed me how to use the needle...nor will I on this site. That said, ED drugs like Sildenafil never worked for me. Not sure why but I have a low resting rate, 47-51bpm, and that drug only served to make me feel light headed.
MAKE IT HAPPEN!
I had the TULSA PRO procedure at the end of Nov. It was easy and almost painless except for my hips due to the position they had me in. I wore the catheter for two weeks with no problems. I had to go to OU Cancer Center in OKC, 4 hr. drive, for treatment. Locally I was only offered surgery or beam radiation. I did research and settled on TULSA and I'm happy I did. Dr. said he got all the cancer. I had 3 cores and classed as intermediate. PSA increased from 6.4 to 7.5 within two months so I decided to have it treated instead of worrying about it.
Thanks
Two weeks after my TULSA procedure I returned to have my catheter removed. The girl couldn't get the tubing apart. I suggested she get some sizzors. She returned with another nurse. There I was with my junk out and three women observing while we tried to separate the tubing while I was holding on to the tubing so it wouldn't pull. Finally success and out it came. A little embarassing but not that much. I was just glad to have the catheter removed and I could pee.