Hello
I'm sorry you're suffering so much. I would get a 2nd opinion locally.Albuquerque should have several good neurosurgeons or orthopedic spine doctors to choose from. Was in a similar situation about 30 years ago. My issue was 2 severely herniated discs at C3 and C4. When the docs saw the MRI he insisted I have surgery the next day. I only had severe paralysis in my arms but he said I'd be in a wheelchair soon. I would say time is of essence, to say the least.
Prayers from a Christian for a Buddhist.