Hi Mike, I just had my PAE 9 days ago. My prostate started at 250ml. I had the same difficult recovery but fortunately had the ability to self-catheter. I did this twice, in the middle of the night. My doctor wasn't thrilled that I did this but said, "hey, do what you have to do". He said it would just slow the recovery process. Each time I released 600 ml.
My Doctor, Dr. Mouli of Northwestern was absolutely excellent!
Couple of suggestions: Eat good food (in small quantity) before and after. Things get blocked up and that just adds to the misery. Also, don't travel for a few days if you can. My home is 6 hours from Northwestern (Chicago) and, even though I had good assistance, it was rough!
I have full confidence in this procedure with an experienced doctor. Can't wait for full recovery!