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Stage 4 dementia: Inability to eat and now on hospice: What to do?

Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: 15 hours ago | Replies (13)
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@tracidw

So sorry. I'm watching answers for myself as well. My mom has been declining, started having seizures and is now on hospice. Doesn't want to eat, only wants to sleep. It appears this is normal for the progression but sure is sad to watch.

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Sue, Volunteer Mentor | @sueinmn | 6 days ago

This is a tough situation - I've been there!
The best thing you can do right now is be with her as much as circumstances allow.

If she is aware and responds, ask if she would like to see or talk to anyone. Bring pictures that will spark her memory. Ask if she would like lotion massaged on hands, arms, legs or feet.

Even if she doesn't respond, talk to her, touch her, sing or play her favorite music, hold her hand.

Hugs to you - this is not easy.

PS My Mom asked for her sons/grandkids to come and serenade her with guitars and favorite songs. But she asked me to do her a favor and not sing. 🤣

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